Painful male ejaculation (written by Shan&Claude)
Shan & Claude,
My boyfriend and I have been talking about our past sex lives, and one of
the things that came up in conversation is that when ever he ejaculates his legs
either lock or cramp and it is extremely painful for him. I was wondering
if there is anything that we can do to lessen this. From what he says the
cramping occurs mostly at night or when he's tired. He says it doesn't
happen as often when he's masturbating, the cramping usually only occurs during
sex. I really hope you can help us.
We are sorry it took so long to respond to your question. It took a little
research and investigation! We have heard of this condition in athletes.
The leg cramps can be accredited to a variety of factors. The cramps may
be a result of being in the same position for a long period of time. If
that is the case you may want to experiment with different positions (you on top
and so forth). You may want to investigate how he masturbates (the
position or positions) to determine if you could implement some of those
positions into your current experiences to try to avoid the cramping.
Aspirin contains antiprostoglandins. Because of this, aspirin is supposed to
reduce cramping in menstrual women. Perhaps it could have the same
“cramp reducing” properties in your partner?
an athletic point of view some people belief that leg cramping, particularly at
night, may be the result of low electrolytes or low potassium after the body
experiences a workout. The electrolytes could be replaced with a sports
drink, a banana, or other products that contain similar replacement fluids.
If the problem persists, or if you choose to take the aspirin, we always
recommend that you speak with your healthcare provider or medical professional
first! If you implement changing positions, sports drinks, and bananas
into your sexual play all at the same time you could have quite an amazing
scene! Hope that helps your partner’s leg cramps and help you both have
a lot of fun!
Pleasurably, Shan & Claude
tip was originally written by Shan & Claude Colestock
Premature Ejaculation (written by Shan&Claude)
Shan & Claude,
This is Jasbir from Bramptom Canada. Actually I have a problem. Whenever we I
and my b/f haves sex he ejaculates early and I am left unsatisfied due to lack
of penetration though he eats me out but the desire to get IT remains , we have
tried 2-3 times and now we are going together married soon. I hope you will
answer and help me thanks Jasbir
Jasbir (from Canada),
What you have described is quite common. However, not everyone seeks help!
We are glad that you are investigating how to get your needs met. There
are many things a couple can do to help prolong intercourse or pleasure.
There are sexual toys - if it is the penetration that you enjoy. There are
actually a variety of sexual toys that you may enjoy! Check out
goodvibes.com or attend a session on these issues at our howtohavegoodsex.com
website! There are physical techniques that you can practice, separate or
together, that can help prolong or postpone his orgasm. There are books
written on it and websites. Most involve the man practicing and rehearsing
how to hold-off orgasm. Some techniques include stopping and relaxing just
before orgasm while others involve squeezing the tip of the penis to halt orgasm
and “last longer.” We recommend that you seek a more detailed book or
website on sexual techniques.
we ask you a question? Does he know how you feel? Does he know your
needs? Have you explained your situation to him? The best part of
being able to communicate about these issues is that you will have fun
practicing how to reduce or illuminate the problem! We encourage you to
tell him exactly what you have told us (if you already haven’t).
you enjoy every minute of your learning,
Shan & Claude Colestock
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