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Pleasing a woman
How To Have Good Sex, Inc.
HTHGS: How to please my g.f (written by Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan & Claude,
I'm a 19 year old boy from Sweden with the most wonderful Girlfriend a man can ever get. When we're having fun with each other, she wants me to play/suck on her breasts. On a serious talk show they talked about giving women orgasms by stimulating her nipples. I want to learn how to give my girlfriend an orgasm by playing/sucking on her breasts. Please help me with this... problem. I really want to surprise her by giving her an orgasm thru here "favorite place" on here body. P.s. I hope you can understand my question, because of the grammar, which isn't the best.
Swedish Guy
Dear Swedish guy,
We want you to know that this is a sweet goal but a very difficult one! Everyone has different zones of pleasure. If her nipples do not get her off they may not ever get her off. It would be like her sucking your elbow trying to get you to
orgasm. Some people can get off that way but usually only if they like that! You can use fantasy and extended stimulation to increase the chances of orgasm but you may be disappointed because we doubt you will be able to surprise her with an orgasm by doing some physical technique.
Shannon and Claudette
PS You grammar was better than some people who
write us from the USA!
HTHGS: How to be a good lover
(written by Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan and Claude,
My name is Michael, and there is this girl called Kate that I am real close to,
now obviously she's done everything sexually active but I haven’t! All that
has happened between us is she has tossed me off! Now I want to be able to
pleasure her, n I am kind of scared! She's on about it all the time to
me......and I really want it to go further but I am not sure what to do. When I
finger her I want it to be better than she's ever had, so I need to no what to
do, I am sure after that I will be fine, she wants me to shag her so bad!!!!!!
Please help me. -- Mike
Dear Mike,
We think it is admirable that you are asking questions about how to be a good
lover! Good for you. We have many things to say… every woman is different.
Some women love to be “fingered” and others not so much. Some like their
clitoris rubbed others not so much. We would recommend that you do not forget
that the entire body can be erogenous (capable of pleasure) so if you focus on
all of her body and not just on what is between her legs you may find that it
really blows her away. If you really want to take a chance admit to her that you
are a little nervous and would love to figure it out with her. Just because you
are a guy does not mean you have to know everything! Take the time and both
figure out what she loves (and what YOU love) then you will both be proud of
your accomplishments. The last thing we wanted to say is that you may eventually
have intercourse and if you do you both should use protection/birth control of
some type. We assume that neither of you wants a disease or virus and would
rather enjoy pleasure without worrying about conception. You have been brave
enough to ask for the experts for opinions – be brave enough to communicate
with her and take care of your sexual health. Shan & Claude
HTHGS: How to impress a woman (written by Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan & Claude,
I just started seeing this girl, anyway I really want to impress her so I have a few questions if that's okay? In one of your articles you talk about finding the g-spot, I think I have a rough idea where it is, however, the article says I should enter the vagina with two fingers, but then goes on to say how the index finger is the one that performs the "come here" motion, what do I do with the other finger? Also is it best to start with the fingers and then when she has become very excited start the licking, or should I try them simultaneously? Obviously considering
I have only been seeing her for a couple of weeks, we don't want full sex yet, so getting her to orgasm through cunningulus is the aim.
Dear cunnilingus aim,
The other finger generally supports the index
finger as it can be tiring. Licking/sucking
and manual stimulation is generally an excellent technique (though everyone is
different). Do whatever gets the
best reaction from her!!! Try it one way and see what she does or how she reacts! Drive
her crazy! Shan and Claude
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