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Sex Noises

  • Sex noises (written by Alex Robboy, LSW)

  • Queafing (written by Shan&Claude)


HTHGS: Sex Noises

In response to your question, the noise that you are hearing is likely to be caused by air trapped inside the vaginal canal. Thus, to stop the noise, simply let the air out. You can do this by having the guy pull his penis all the way out.  Then after 30 seconds, he should re-enter his penis into the vaginal canal slowly.   If this method fails, and the noise still bothers you, you may want to experiment with letting yourself get “drier” sometimes, the “wetness” can facilitate air suction.  However, this is not a method I recommend.  Being wet is actually a good sign. Being wet tends to indicate sexual excitement and decreases the chances of having vaginal irritation from friction.

Some cultures consider “noisy sex” to be a sign of “good sex,” thus I am wondering what you find so embarrassing about the noise.  The noise is a natural part of sex.  I wondering if instead of focusing on ways to stop the noise, what would happen if you focused on how to get comfortable with the noise?

Ways to enjoy noisy sex

  • Put on loud music – then you do not have to hear it

  • Try to make the noise to the beat of the music that you are playing

  •  Practice laughing when you make noises, it’s funny

 This tip was originally written by Alex Robboy, LSW



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The Founder: "Alex" Caroline Robboy, LCSW, QSW, CAS

Ms. Robboy is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of The Center for Growth Inc and How To Have Good Sex Inc.  Alex practices marriage and family therapy and sex therapy, and also conducts periodic seminars about human sexuality throughout the northeastern United States.

Ms. Robboy graduated from the University of Pennsylvania where she earned a Masters degree in Social Work, a Certificate of Advanced Studies in Human Sexuality Education and a Post-Masters Certificate in Marriage Counseling & Sex Therapy. Through the American Board of Sexology, she is a board certified sexologist and through the American Association of Sex Educators Counselors and Therapists a certified sex therapist.  Additionally, she is a licensed clinical social worker and a member of the American Board of Marriage and Family Therapy.


  Our Philosophy sex is like dancing, it changes every time. It depends on culture, atmosphere and mood. Sometimes it is done alone, with a partner or in a group. It can be fast and hard or slow and soft. Sex is a combination of non-verbal negotiation and verbal cues: a scream, a twitch of the toes, or a flush of the face. There is no one 'right' way to move, only what feels good to all those involved. 
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