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First, take a deep breath and relax. Your problem is quite common. The cause of the difficulty that you are experiencing is most likely from anxiety, nervousness, embarrassment, shyness, excitement and/or a desire to please. Expect that you will have problems getting / maintaining an erection for several dates. If you have problems maintaining an erection during masturbation, and / or never have an erection during your sleep it is a strong indication that you are having difficulty due to a medical problem. If that is the situation, you will need to make an appointment with an urologist who will be able to assist you. Given your description it sounds to me as if you simply need to RELAX, stop worrying, learn to laugh at yourself and have a good time. The key to being a good lover is to stop putting so much pressure on yourself or your partner to perform. There is more to good sex than an erect penis.
tip was originally written by Alex Robboy, LSW
Hard as rocks
24yrs old. I think I have a problem and would appreciate any feedback you
can give me. In short, my problem is that I cannot get a really hard
erection during the day or at night. When I wake up in the mornings, my
penis is as hard as a rock and stands up real stiff, and sex at that time is
just fantastic for myself and my girlfriend. But at other times, it just
doesn’t harden up well. My girlfriend gives me a hand job and I come,
but my penis isn’t hard enough for intercourse. Oral sex is great, but I
want to know why I cannot maintain an erection at times other than first thing
in the morning. Is there any exercise I can do? Any supplements I
can take? Anything? Please let me know. Thank you, Yours Sincerely, Mark
response to your question, you should make an appointment with your urologist to
have all potential medical problems ruled out.
Theoretically, one should be able to get ‘really hard’ at any hour of
the day (given that you are well rested, have not had sex for 48 hours and have
had enough stimulation), so it is a little concerning that you are having
that being said, my second hunch is that because you are new to sex you simply
might have unrealistic expectations about what your penis can and can not do.
After ejaculation all men have a ‘refractory period’ where they
simply can not get hard again. This period lasts anywhere from one minute to 48
hours. You also may not be receiving enough stimulation to warrant a hard as
rock penis. Do you only experience waxing and waning when you are with
your girlfriend? Or does this also occur when you masturbate? If you experience
this problem when you are on your own, there is a greater chance that this is
not a relationship problem, but rather a medical one.
regards to taking supplements, unless they are prescribed by your doctor stay
away from them. If you absolutely
require having a ‘hard as rock’ penis, try using a dildo harness
regards to what exercises you can do. Try
strengthening your PC muscles http://www.howtohavegoodsex.com/locating_your_pc_muscle.htm
Alex Robboy, LSW
Limp Penis (written by Alex Robboy, LSW)
what you wrote, I am wondering if you have difficulties maintaining an erection
when you masturbate? In other words does this problem always occur? Or is it
related to the person that you are with? Sometimes men have difficulties having
a firm penis when they get anxious about their performance? Other times, they do
not know how to teach the woman they are with how to please them.
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