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HTHGS: French Kissing (written by Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan & Claude,
Do you kiss on the lips? To us the beginning would begin there. Kiss on the lips and let your tongue brush his lips. He will most likely pick up on your cues. If he doesn’t reciprocate you may need to put the tip of your tongue into his mouth. This question is also very culture dependent some cultures don’t “French” kiss, and some cultures practice kissing on trees or practice by putting little fish in their mouths! It is much like dancing you take a step and they take a step. It can be a wonderful dance of back-and-forth exchange that changes and alters every time. It has a rhythm of its own. How much you move your tongue and how deep you push it will be up to you we can’t tell you that.
If we did try to spell it out it would maybe pollute the dance! We wouldn’t want you to think you weren’t doing it right! Part of the fun and excitement is figuring it out with your partner and even laughing about stuff that didn’t go well. You could suck each other’s tongues, you could have your tongues just barely touch, you could put his tongue in your mouth or vice versa, you could have your tongues meet out of your mouths or in the mouths. There are many options but don’t let them confuse you or overwhelm you the main thing is just that you take the chance to experience and live the kiss - if it is something you really want to experience. Sometimes it is hard to take risks. But, we hope we have given you enough of a description that you feel okay with trying it because that was what you asked right?
Lastly, we have to recommend you talk to him about it! People who can’t talk about what they are doing sexually may not be ready for those behaviors whether it is kissing or intercourse. Open communication is your ally. After 4 years we hope that you could discuss a kiss or we would be concerned that this person may not contribute to you feeling very comfortable. If communication is out of the question we would recommend that you seek the help of a qualified couples or marriage counselor. This may seem extreme to you over a kiss but we promise that there will be many more conversations that must take place in your relationship that are far more difficult and awkward that this and a counselor may be able to help give you both the skills and comfort and permission to communicate about such issues. Again, we are delighted that you asked us and we hope that we helped you. Shan & Claude
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