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HTHGS: Loss of sensation (written by Dr. Rowan)

Ask Dr. Rowan,
I seem to have lost sensation while having sex with my girlfriend, what could it possibly be ? Over-masturbation, sex organ incompatibility? I just can seem to have an orgasm! Help!!! (I'm a guy)

 Dear Iím a guy,
You do not indicate how old you are, if you are on any medication, if you are using a condom, how aroused either of you are, of if you have been successful with other women.  All could be factors.  Can you masturbate successfully with sensation to orgasm?  "Over-masturbation" would not be an issue unless you have conditioned yourself to some technique that intercourse cannot duplicate.  A common cause of difficulty in ejaculation in young men is situational anxiety.  If excessive lubrication is a problem, consider changes in position to provide more contact.
Dr. Rowan


HTHGS: Masturbation (written by Dr. Rowan & Dr. Pluhar)

Ask Dr. Rowan & Dr. Pluhar,
I am 22 years old boy and I have a very serious thing to ask you.  I have been masturbating for the past 5-6 years nearly everyday.  I would like to know if this would be a problem for me in the future.  Please guide me and help me out.  Thanks

Dear Muler,
There is no evidence that daily or more frequent masturbation has consequences in terms of future potency or fertility.  If your technique causes trauma, then you should change it.  If masturbation interferes with relationships, then you might consider therapy to explore why  this is so.  If you feel guilt (an almost universal experience) consider the study of masturbation-positive books to see it from a different, more joyful, perspective.
Dr. Rowan

Dear Muler,
Thank you for your question.  You are not alone in wondering if masturbation might cause you harm.  Because of the many myths that abound about masturbation, it often isn't easy to talk about it, let alone feel comfortable doing it.  But, rest assured that there are absolutely no proven health problems that result from masturbation, even if you do it once a year, once a month, or once a day.  In fact, masturbation is a healthy and normal behavior.  It can help people relieve stress, experience pleasure, and learn about their sexual response cycles.  The only time masturbation can be become a problem, just like ANY behavior, is when the urge to do it interferes with your normal life and relationships.  From what you describe, your masturbation is perfectly healthy and natural!  I hope this helps you out and relieves your worry. Sincerely,
Dr. Pluhar

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Ms. Robboy is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of The Center for Growth Inc and How To Have Good Sex Inc.  Alex practices marriage and family therapy and sex therapy, and also conducts periodic seminars about human sexuality throughout the northeastern United States.

Ms. Robboy graduated from the University of Pennsylvania where she earned a Masters degree in Social Work, a Certificate of Advanced Studies in Human Sexuality Education and a Post-Masters Certificate in Marriage Counseling & Sex Therapy. Through the American Board of Sexology, she is a board certified sexologist and through the American Association of Sex Educators Counselors and Therapists a certified sex therapist.  Additionally, she is a licensed clinical social worker and a member of the American Board of Marriage and Family Therapy.


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