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Having Sex for the First Time
Having Sex for the First Time
Having sex for the first time
As I know the first experience of the virgin girl is
very crucial and she going to feel a lot of pain and it might be a life time
nightmare for her if I want to show how macho I am.
Therefore my concern is how to go about 1). initiating and 2). having sex with her without hurting her or creating life time depression and scare.3) suitable position to be adopted.
Hopefully you going help me on this matter, because I
do not want to to create tension whenever I initiate sex to her.
Given that you have minimal information about her sexual history, desires, likes or wants, and you want to make sure that this is a good experience for her, try letting her be in control. Often when women initiate (and men) they are in a better position to “own” their behavior. For example, after the two of you have begun kissing, do not immediate touch her breasts, wait for her hands to touch your breasts first. In addition, do not place your hands on her inner thighs until she has touched yours. In other words try to keep pace with her. Sometimes you can lead a little bit, but mostly just try to stay parallel to her actions. This way, she will never feel rushed to do something that she is not ready for, and you will begin to learn what her level of sexual energy is like.
In regards to your other question, what is the best position for having intercourse for the first time, I suggest the missionary position.
Missionary Position (person with a penis or dildo on
top) In the missionary position, the person with a penis or dildo is on top and
assumes the dominant role. The other person who is on bottom assumes the passive
role. (Each person is lying down, stomach-stomach, face-to-face. Most people may
be able to remember using this position the first time they had sex or in their
early days of sexual experimentation.) It is one of the tried and true methods
for intercourse. Unfortunately, this position gets a lot of bad press. It is
considered 'gendered and old-fashioned". I believe this is a great position
for two reasons. First, the person on top has a lot of control over the degree
of stimulation that they get and second, the person on bottom can easily
increase their sexual pleasure by masturbating while simultaneously having
intercourse. If the partner on top is especially coordinated, she/he could also
help masturbate the person on bottom. Some of the techniques used to create an
intimate environment are eye-to-eye contact, guiding your partners hip movements
with your hands, massaging your partner's neck/back, nibbling the other person's
ears, necks or lips. And of course, whispering something that only your partner
Ps. Remember, sex takes practice. No matter how much reading you do to prepare yourself for your first sexual experience, first timers always encounter some type of difficulties. They range from loss of erection, not lasting long enough, difficulty entering the vagina, bleeding, slight amounts of pain, and lack of coordination. But do not worry, these moments of confusion can actually enhance the sense of closeness that the two of you may feel as you embark upon a new experience together. A little bit of anxiety of increases ones sense of connectedness. Thus, while the actual sex may lack technique, the specialness of the situation can make for a wonderful night.
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