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How to be on top 

HTHGS: What a girl does on top (written by Yvonne Fulbright, MS. Ed)

Ask Yvonne,
My man always wants me to be on top and I cant figure out what to do.  Can you please explain in detail what a girl does on top? -Ashlee

Dear Ashlee,
Very good question, considering that most women rate this as their most favorite position Ė with many of them able to have better or more orgasms when riding their partners!  The easiest way for you to get into this position would be to lie on top of your partner, with your legs outside of his.  Do this by embracing him, while on your side, then swinging your leg over the side of his body.  Climb onto him and lower yourself onto his erect penis. 

While on top, you can sit up slightly or all the way, and move your pelvis from front and back, rubbing your clitoris on his lower abs.  Or you can move up and down, tightening your pelvic muscles to grip his penis as you do so.  Basically, play horsey.  To see how itís done and to learn some moves, try watching a porn flick with your partner.  Iím sure such movies will give you plenty of ideas on other things to do! Yvonne K. Fulbright, MS.Ed.



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Ms. Robboy is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of The Center for Growth Inc and How To Have Good Sex Inc.  Alex practices marriage and family therapy and sex therapy, and also conducts periodic seminars about human sexuality throughout the northeastern United States.

Ms. Robboy graduated from the University of Pennsylvania where she earned a Masters degree in Social Work, a Certificate of Advanced Studies in Human Sexuality Education and a Post-Masters Certificate in Marriage Counseling & Sex Therapy. Through the American Board of Sexology, she is a board certified sexologist and through the American Association of Sex Educators Counselors and Therapists a certified sex therapist.  Additionally, she is a licensed clinical social worker and a member of the American Board of Marriage and Family Therapy.


  Our Philosophy sex is like dancing, it changes every time. It depends on culture, atmosphere and mood. Sometimes it is done alone, with a partner or in a group. It can be fast and hard or slow and soft. Sex is a combination of non-verbal negotiation and verbal cues: a scream, a twitch of the toes, or a flush of the face. There is no one 'right' way to move, only what feels good to all those involved. 
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