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       FOR WOMEN ONLY

Lots of folks in long-term relationships get bored by the type of sex that they are having. In fact, many report that the initial umph got up and left and now it is the same old routine, day after day. And while they like the sex, it's not as exciting as it used to be. Ironically, after most people get settled into a long-term relationship people stop setting aside the same kind of time to have sex. Think back to those early days when you planned out which bra, or underwear you should put on because your partner might actually see it and you wanted to look good. Or that if you went over to their house to watch a movie that the two of you would end up having sex together. You just factored that time in. It was expected. It was something you looked forward too.

Tonight, set aside 2-3 hrs of your time aside and get ready to play.

The Goal: Fun sex

The Purpose: Increase intimacy

The Rules:

                Dog owner's only

  • Your partner does not know that you are playing this game. How could he, he never read this tip
  • You are alone in the house. This may mean calling one of your friends to watch your children for the evening. Putting the children to sleep early and waiting until they are asleep to play the game or telling your in-laws that they can not come over for dinner etc.
  • Every time your partner goes to touch, pet, play with the dog, you have to take off one article of clothing. For example, your earings, your ring, your hat, your sock, your shoe, your skirt, your sweater, etc. Remember - be subtle.
  •  If your partner attempts to remove anything that you are wearing, tell him no, unless he says the dogs name first!
  • Every time your dog goes to touch, lick, or smell you, you need to approach your partner and remove some article of clothing that he is wearing, but do not tell him why you are doing this.
  • Do not tell him why you are doing what you are doing - unless he guesses the scenario correctly, but never give him any additional information about what is in stores for him - next.
  • Once the two of you are naked, begin to give him a full bodied massage - by this I mean, a massage which starts with him lying on his stomach and ends with him lying on back, and your massaging his penis with your mouth. By full bodied massage, the following examples could be included: Toe sucking, rubbing his fingers along your genitals and then sucking on them, calf rubs, underarm massage, nibbling on the neck, head massage and of course running your fingers along his lips.
  •  After the massage present him with a present. The present should be one of the following: a sex video, flavored condoms, glow in the dark condom, flavored oil, cock ring, butt plug, hand-cuffs or even a home-made-coupon book that has all sorts of sexy ideas he could request (oral sex, kissing, dessert in bed). Note, that your partner may or may not be in the mood for sex. That is the risk you take with all games, but either way, the thing to remember is that he will know that you are trying to please him, and that I can assure you will be noticed!

 

For Non Dog Owner's

  • Your partner does not know that you are playing this game. How could he, he never read this tip J
  •  You are alone in the house. This may mean calling one of your friends to watch your children for the evening. Putting the children to sleep early and waiting until they are asleep to play the game or telling your in-laws that they can not come over for dinner etc.
  •  Every time your partner goes to eat any food, take off an article of your clothes
  • Every time your partner talks about food, take off an article of his clothes.
  •  Do not tell him why you are doing what you are doing - unless he guesses the scenario correctly, but never give him any additional information about what is in stores for him.
  • Once the two of you are naked, (don’t forget to wear the sexy matching bra and underwear) begin to give him a full bodied massage - that starts with his back, and ends with his penis receiving a massage by your mouth. By full bodied massage, the following is included: Toe sucking, rubbing his fingers along your genitals and then sucking on them, calf rubs, underarm massage, nibbling on the neck, head massage and of course running your fingers along his lips.
  • After the massage present him with a present. The present should be one of the following: a sex video, flavored condoms, glow in the dark condom, flavored oil, cock ring, butt plug, hand-cuffs or even a home-made-coupon book that has all sorts of sexy ideas he could request (oral sex, kissing, dessert in bed). Note, that your partner may or may not be in the mood for sex. That is the risk you take with all games, but either way, the thing to remember is that he will know that you are trying to please him, and that I can assure you will be noticed!

    Tips written by Alex Robboy, LSW



 

 

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The Founder: "Alex" Caroline Robboy, LCSW, QSW, CAS

Ms. Robboy is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of The Center for Growth Inc and How To Have Good Sex Inc.  Alex practices marriage and family therapy and sex therapy, and also conducts periodic seminars about human sexuality throughout the northeastern United States.

Ms. Robboy graduated from the University of Pennsylvania where she earned a Masters degree in Social Work, a Certificate of Advanced Studies in Human Sexuality Education and a Post-Masters Certificate in Marriage Counseling & Sex Therapy. Through the American Board of Sexology, she is a board certified sexologist and through the American Association of Sex Educators Counselors and Therapists a certified sex therapist.  Additionally, she is a licensed clinical social worker and a member of the American Board of Marriage and Family Therapy.

 

  Our Philosophy sex is like dancing, it changes every time. It depends on culture, atmosphere and mood. Sometimes it is done alone, with a partner or in a group. It can be fast and hard or slow and soft. Sex is a combination of non-verbal negotiation and verbal cues: a scream, a twitch of the toes, or a flush of the face. There is no one 'right' way to move, only what feels good to all those involved. 
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