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 Lap Dancing
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HTHGS: Lap Dancing (written by Shan & Claude)

Ask Shan & Claude,  
I have a problem. I want to lap dance for my boyfriend without being embarrassed.  

Dear Lap Dancer, 
We read this question, but due to the graphics you attached we were unable to copy this exact question into our computer – so we wrote a summary – we are sorry if it is not as nice and cute as your original J.  We got the gist of your question – it was about lap dancing and how to improve and body image and comfort.  Right now there is a trend in some areas/gyms for people to learn how to strip as a cardio workout.  If it is not in your area you may be able to go on the web and get a video of it!  Likewise we are sure there are other videos about stripping/lap dancing.  You could go to a “strip club” and watch the techniques of other people to improve your routine.  In regard to body image… this is a really difficult issue.  It is all too easy for us to sit back and say “get over it” and have fun, but we realize it isn’t that easy for some people.  Overall, we absolutely believe that the mind is the key here.  The more you believe in yourself and the more you act sexy and believe you are sexy the more others will believe it as well.  What we experience is that just about everyone says “I would be happier if I was just x lighter” or “I would do it if I was x” and then no one does much.  Please, do not wait until you fit some artificial image of perfection or you may be waiting forever before you try much.  One of our friends always says “life is not a dress rehearsal!”  The time to act is now.  If you send any further questions please do not include graphics. Hope that helps, Shan & Claude



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"Alex" Caroline Robboy is a certified sex therapist through the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists and an American Board Certified Sexologist. In addition, she is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists and a member of the North American Society for Psychological Obstetrics and Gynecology.


  Our Philosophy sex is like dancing, it changes every time. It depends on culture, atmosphere and mood. Sometimes it is done alone, with a partner or in a group. It can be fast and hard or slow and soft. Sex is a combination of non-verbal negotiation and verbal cues: a scream, a twitch of the toes, or a flush of the face. There is no one 'right' way to move, only what feels good to all those involved. 
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