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Pee
& Sex
How To Have Good Sex,
Inc.
1)
Golden Showers (written by Shan & Claude)
2) Needing to pee during oral sex, (written by Shan & Claude)
3) Urinating
on partner (written by Shan & Claude MS.Ed.)
4) Urine Fetish (written by Shan &
Claudette MS.Ed.)
5)Information on Pee and Sex (written by
other sexperts)
HTHGS:
Golden Showers (written by Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan & Claude,
I was
wondering if you could help me...
My boyfriend would like for me to urinate on him while having sex and I would
love to even more, I have tried and I just cant is there something I could do to
make this happen, it would be greatly appreciated if you could help me or direct
me somewhere, where I could get these tips have a wonderful day
Dear urinating on partner,
These are called “Golden Showers” and many other names as well. There
is plenty on the web about this. It is great that you found each other
because you can imagine that sometimes one person wants to pee or be peed on and
their partner is not willing. If you two are both consenting good for
you! The way to do it… we are sure there are many ways. We would
guess you would want to do it in a shower or bath. The easiest way would
be for you to drink a lot of liquid! Eventually you will go! Have
fun! Shan & Claude
HTHGS:
Needing to pee during oral sex, (written by Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan & Claude,
I was wondering if you could help me. My boyfriend says he feels like he has to
go to the bathroom when I give him head. Is that something that is normal or
what? Confused
Dear Confused,
Many men experience an urge to urinate when they get erections. Perhaps he
does have to go to the bathroom? Maybe if he went to the bathroom before
you “give him head” it will eliminate some of that urge? Sometimes
oral sex can give an “itchy” sensation that may feel like the urge to
urinate. Another possible way to try to eliminate this urge is to alter
you technique to harder or softer and ask him if it feels better or worse or
different and find out what he likes the best. The pressure that is
building up is like the pressure before a sneeze he most likely does not have
to urinate. He is getting close to orgasm. You are on the right
track! We hope this helps you. Shan & Claude
HTHGS: Urinating on partner (written by
Shan & Claude MS.Ed.)
Ask Shan & Claude,
I was wondering if you could help me...My boyfriend would like for me to urinate
on him while having sex and I would love to even more, I have tried and I just
cant is there something I could do to make this happen, it would be greatly
appreciated if you could help me or
direct me somewhere, where I could get these tips have a wonderful day
Dear urinating on partner,
These are called “Golden Showers” and many other names as well. There
is plenty on the web about this. It is great that you found each other
because you can imagine that sometimes one person wants to pee or be peed on and
their partner is not willing. If you two are both consenting good
for you! The way to do it… we are sure there are many ways. We
would guess you would want to do it in a shower or bath. The easiest way
would be for you to drink a lot of liquid! Eventually you will go!
Have fun! Shan & Claude
HTHGS: Letter
to the editor,
I've just read the "urinating
on partner" Q&A. It seems as if the situation wasn't fully
examined. What I have understood was that she physically couldn't pee during
penetration. Recently, I had the same difficulty and would like to share the
info that I have found. The problem is that the urethra is blocked. Some penis'
are too large to allow room for the urine to flow freely. What I have found to
be of some help is to straddle your partner and lean back, leaving the urethra
enough space. Try partial insertion of the penis, too. Some problems might
follow these attempts so be very wary of what's happening. Urine can return to
the system, causing problems down the road for her if she tries too many times.
Painful urination and possible bleeding while voiding may occur. There are so
many on-line golden sites, some that aren't only gratuitous "pee
shots." Have fun and do your research! thank you, Luriana
HTHGS:
Urine Fetish (written by Shan & Claudette MS.Ed.)
Ask Shan & Claudette,
I have developed a fondness for my girlfriend's urine. She pees on me when
we have sex and this turns me on a lot. It also turns her on too; but not
as much. Is this normal? Is this safe? Sometimes we drink each
other's pee too.
-Ray
Dear Ray,
You
are two consenting individuals! It is not hurting anyone right?
As long as it is consensual and mutual hey good for you. We
are not really sure what you mean by “normal.” We prefer not to get
into semantics. What is normal to you may not be normal in another
culture. Just the fact that the word normal exists implies that there is
an abnormal. Normal is absolutely relative. In a convention of
people who like urinating on one another (“golden showers”) it would be
absolutely normal. In the corner grocery store it may not be “normal.”
In other words be more concerned that it is mutually pleasurable and
consensual and don’t let some peoples’ narrow definition of “normal”
influence your pleasure or your feelings of normalcy! It is normal for you
and your partner and that is what is really important! Shan &
Claude
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