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  • Shy during sex (Written by Shan & Claude)

HTHGS: Shy during sex (Written by Shan & Claude)

Ask Shan & Claude,
Hi, I am involved in a sexual relationship but I am quite shy when having sex. My boyfriend has been making it obvious that he wants me to go on top because it would really turn him on, and I would like this too but I am not sure what to do. He said I should squat over him, but I am not sure what to do. I want him to enjoy it but I need to know how :) Sorry if that seems like a silly question, please help. Thank you :):) S

Dear S,
This is not a silly question.  If you want some excellent educational aides ­ check out some erotica (porn)!  They could help you see how women “ride” from the top.  There are many different styles and techniques.  You may just have to try it to discover if it works for you and if it pleasures you. Depending on your size and his size and your style you may find being on top very pleasurable.  We will tell you that you may find that it is work!  You will have to do most of the moving and thrusting and it can be quite a workout!  Many women find being on top liberating and powerful - and pleasurable! Have fun figuring out the top, Shan & Claude



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