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Blue
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How To Have Good Sex, Inc.
HTHGS:
Blue balls, (written Shan & Claude)
Ask Shan & Claude,
My name is Peter. I have a problem. I'm 19 yrs old; I've only had sex with
3 or 4 different partners about 3 or 4 times each. I've noticed something
that happens every time I have sex. I just can't seem to get that knee
shattering ejaculation that I got my 2nd time having sex. Okay, let me try
to make it as clear as possible. I love sex. I loved it before I had
it and I want to do it all the time. I used to and sometimes still
masturbate 3 times a day some days and at least once everyday. It would be
unusual if I missed more than 1-2 days a week. Seriously. I
always loved the female figure and sometimes even the males. Well, not
only did I do it for myself, but when I was with a partner, I went out of my way
to make her orgasm at least once, but I didn't try to the point where I lost the
great feeling for myself (I’m sure you know what I mean) anyway, I would go
and exercise my PC every morning cause I love how hard it's gotten since and the
way it stays hard after cumming so I can go at it again really quickly.
Well Because of it I can surely prolong my cum but sometimes I'll go so long
that I WON’T cum and fuck, well blue balls really makes the night and next day
shitty. I know it's not from stress because I'm totally stress free. No
worries. The reason I write is because maybe it's a condition that can be
helped. I mean, don't get me wrong, the women love it that I can bring
them around once or twice in one session because it feels great that they'll be
smiling for a week and call me back but it hurts after like 40 minutes and I am
exhausted. I don't want to move but I still have to cum. What wrong
here. Please help. Oh ya, if I didn't mention it, I'm average weight
for my age. I don't smoke. I drink an ounce of rye every morning to
keep blood moving smoothly and I work out at the gym with a cardio section.
I'm totally fit. Please let me know your opinion
Dear guy who can
last 40 minutes but doesn’t orgasm. It
sounds like you have a healthy relationship with yourself and enjoy yourself.
Good for you. When women enter the picture we wonder if you are so focused
on lasting and their pleasure if you are able to fully experience pleasure for
yourself? It is important to be sensitive to your partner’s needs but
not at the exclusion of your own sensation and pleasure. Feel your own
pleasure and relax and enjoy! Shan & Claude
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