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Ever wondered how to have better sex? If the answer to this question is yes, then try the following:

  • rent some sex educational videos of people having sex (these types of videos are often boring, but educational.  Probably in part because they are 'boring' they promote a certain type of conversation, which promotes better sex)

  • Read some books on how to become a better lover.  Sometimes, learning a new technique for touching is enough.

  • Pace yourself, meaning, each time you learn a new trick, tip or idea only introduce one new idea/concept per week. Becoming a great lover does not happen overnight. Each new tip, trick or idea needs practice. Spending a week on it allows sufficient time to fully explore it. Furthermore, by pacing out the new ideas you suddenly become viewed as 'creative'.  Each time your lover has sex with you, you are doing something new!

  • Read some sexy books out loud with your partner. While in some ways this might be an embarrassing task, it has the potential to open an entire new discourse on sexuality.

  • Request feedback.  While words can be useful, request feedback through the senses. For example, ask your partner, if she likes what you are doing to make noises. The louder she is the more she likes it, and the more you will do it.  Feel her heart beat. The faster her pulse, the more she likes it.

  • Play the mirror game. Touch your partner, the way your partner normally touches you. Typically people touch others the way they want to be touched, thus by playing the mirror game (doing everything in the same way back to them) almost by default you will have discovered your partners favorite likes and dislikes.

Written by Alex Caroline Robboy, LCSW, CAS

 

 

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The Founder: "Alex" Caroline Robboy, LCSW, QSW, CAS
"Alex" Caroline Robboy is a certified sex therapist through the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists and an American Board Certified Sexologist. In addition, she is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists and a member of the North American Society for Psychological Obstetrics and Gynecology.

 

  Our Philosophy sex is like dancing, it changes every time. It depends on culture, atmosphere and mood. Sometimes it is done alone, with a partner or in a group. It can be fast and hard or slow and soft. Sex is a combination of non-verbal negotiation and verbal cues: a scream, a twitch of the toes, or a flush of the face. There is no one 'right' way to move, only what feels good to all those involved. 
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